What My Divorce Taught Me About Marriage: Don’t Take Things Personally

Don't take things personally! Getting hurt is a part of any relationship, and taking every hurt personally can poison your love. So remember that you love each other, even when you hurt each other!

No person is immune the pain of ending an intimate relationship, even the experts.  While “Divorced Relationship Expert” may seem like an oxymoron, it is my reality.  I can use my experience with it to help my clients navigate the storms of marriage and relationships.  Each day it seems that…

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What My Divorce Taught Me About Marriage: Boundaries

No person is immune the pain of ending an intimate relationship, even the experts.  While “Divorced Relationship Expert” may seem like an oxymoron, it is my reality.  I can use my experience with it to help you navigate the storms of marriage and relationships.  Each day it seems that I…

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Fight Like You Love Each Other

Even professional fights have rules

(Updated 6/28/2017) Fighting sucks.  I know that this is about as controversial a statement as saying that ice cream is a nice treat on a hot day, but that doesn’t make it any less valid.  Learning to fight well may not make them a pile of rose petals, but it…

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